Sexuality education is a lifelong process that begins at birth. Parents, family, peers, partners, schools, religion, and the media influence the messages people receive about sexuality at all stages of life. These messages can be conflicting, incomplete, and inaccurate. All people have the right to comprehensive sexuality education that addresses the biological, sociocultural, psychological, and spiritual dimensions of sexuality from the cognitive domain (information); the affective domain (feelings, values, and attitudes); and the behavioral domain (communication and decision-making skills).
Parents are -- and ought to be -- their children's primary sexuality educators, but may need help and encouragement to fulfill this important role. Religious leaders, youth and community group leaders, and health and education professionals can complement and augment the sexuality education that takes place at home.
This bibliography on Sexuality Education in the Home is designed to provide parents and caregivers with resources they can use to talk to their children about sexuality and to prepare them for adult lives as sexually healthy people.
SIECUS does not sell or distribute these publications or videos. They are, however, available for use in the Mary S. Calderone Library. For those interested in purchasing any of the following books, each annotation contains contact and price information not including shipping and handling.
This bibliography was compiled by Amy Levine, M.A., SIECUS librarian.
Disclaimer notice: Most of the books listed in this bibliography contain positive messages about sexuality. Some may however, contain messages or information that needs updating (particularly information on HIV/AIDS or nonoxynol-9). Parents are encouraged to keep up updated on these subjects and to review resources before using them. They are also encouraged to review other SIECUS’ annotated bibliographies that address diverse sexuality related topics such as "Sexual Abuse," "Sexual Harassment," "Gay and Lesbian Sexuality," and "Sexuality and Disability".
*These books were included in SIECUS' previous Annotated Bibliography on Sexuality Education in the Home and are stil considered timely and relevant.
**These books were included in SIECUS' previous Annotated Bibliography on Sexuality Education in the Home but were recently updated.
***Message boards and chat rooms are generally unsupervised and may contain inaccurate information. Parents or caregivers should supervise young teens using these features.
(Taken from the SIECUS Report, Volume 29, Number 2 - December 2000/January 2001)
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FOR FAMILIES
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Five Hundred Questions Kids Ask About Sex and Some of the Answers* |
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Free Your Mind: The Book for Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Youth and Their Allies* |
Our Trans Children
This pamphlet from the Transgender Special Outreach Network of Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) includes questions and answers about transgender issues, the similarities and differences between sexual orientation and gender identity, issues of transgendered youth, and the law. It also includes list of organizations with more information.
1999; Free; Mary Boenke, 180 Bailey Boulevard, Hardy, VA 24101; Phone:540/890-3957; Web site: http://www.youth-guard.org/pflag-t-net/bookletwb/index1.html
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Trans Forming Families:
Real Stories About
Transgendered Loved Ones |
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The Underground Guide to Teenage Sexuality: An Essential Handbook for Today's Teens and Parents* |
FOR PARENTS AND CAREGIVERS
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But I Love Him:
Protecting Your Teen Daughter
From Controlling, Abusive
Dating Relationships |
Does AIDS Hurt? Educating Young Children About AIDS*
Marcia Quackenbush, M.S., MFCC., and Sylvia Villarreal, M.D.
Written for teachers, parents, and other care providers, this handbook carefully explains the difference between HIV and AIDS. Using age-appropriate language, it offers sensible advice to help children understand the virus and subsequent diseases.
1992, $17.95; ISBN 1560710845, ETR Associates, P.O. Box 1830, Santa Cruz, CA 95061-1830; Phone: 800/321-4407; Fax: 800/435-8433; Web site: http://www.etr.org
Family Connections:
A Guidebook for Parents
Of Children
Family Health Council, Inc.,
Center for Adolescent Pregnancy Prevention
This set of three guidebooks is for parents of children from birth to 7 years, ages 8-13, and ages 14-18. Parents can use these booklets to help them communicate with their children about sexuality. These informative guidebooks discuss child development, puberty, contraception, sexual abuse, and sexually transmitted diseases.
1996; Free; Family Health Council, Inc., Center for Adolescent Pregnancy Prevention, 960 Penn Avenue, Suite 600, Pittsburgh, PA 15222; Phone: 412/288-0518; Fax: 412/288-9036; Web site: http://www.fhcinc.org
Finding Our Voices:
Talking With Our Children
About Sexuality and AIDS
This booklet provides parents with support and suggestions for talking with children and sexuality issues. It addresses values, developmental stages, sexual behavior, and resources. It is also available in Spanish.
1998; $5; Mothers' Voices at 165 West 46th Street, Suite 701, New York, NY 10036; Phone: 888/MVOICES; Fax: 212/730-4378; Web site: http://www.mvoices.org
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Flight of the Stork: What Children Think (and When) About Sex and Family Building* |
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From Diapers To Dating: A Parent’s Guide to Raising Sexually Healthy Children |
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More Speaking of Sex:
What Your Children Need
To Know and When They
Need To Know It, Second Edition |
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Mothering Teens: Understanding the Adolescent Years* |
Nuestras Hijas Y Nuestros Hijos:
Preguntas y Respuestas para Padres
de Gays, Lesbianas y Bisexuals
PFLAG
This pamphlet provides questions and answers for parents of gay, lesbian, and bisexual people. It is also available in English.
2000; $1.95; PFLAG, 1726 M Street, N.W., Suite 400, Washington, DC 20036; Phone: 202/467-8180; Fax: 202/467-8194; Web site: http://www.pflag.org
Papá, Mamá, Soy Gay:
Una Guía Para Comprender
Las Orientaciones Y Preferencias
Sexuales De Los Hijos
Rinna Riesenfeld
This book helps parents understand and support their gay or lesbian children. It addresses disclosure, expectations and dreams for your children, myths and fears, questions and concerns.
2000; $129 Pesos; ISBN: 9700512398; http://www.ccthomas.com; Web site: http://www.grijalbo.com.
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Raising A Child Responsibly
In a Sexually Permissive World
Second Edition |
Sex Is More Than a Plumbing Lesson: A Parent's Guide*
Patty Stark
This book stresses the complex nature of human sexuality and the parent's role as a sexuality educator. Written clearly and directly, it encourages parents to communicate with their children about sexuality.
1990; ISBN 0962946303; Out of print.
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Sex and Sensibility: The Thinking Parent's Guide to Talking Sense About Sex |
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Sex Is Not a Four-Letter Word! Talking with Your Children Made Easier* |
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Sexual Abuse of Children and Adolescents* |
Sexual Development of Young Children*
Virginia Lively and Edwin Lively
This resource helps to clarify issues in the sexual development of children. An appropriate book for both parents and teachers, the book is especially helpful in answering questions and focusing discussions.
1991; $39.95; ISBN 0827341989; ITP Delmar, P.O. Box 6904, Florence, KY 41022; Phone: 800/347-7707; Fax: 800/647-5023; Web site: http://www.thomsonlearning.com
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Sexuality: Your Sons and Daughters With Intellectual Disabilities |
Talking Back:
Ten Things Teens Want Parents
To Know About Teen Pregnancy
This pamphlet provides tips for parents about how to help teens avoid pregnancy based upon teens responses to the question “If you could give your parents and other important adults advice about how to help you and your friends avoid pregnancy, what would it be?” A resource list is included. A Spanish version is available.
1999; Free; The National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, 1776 Massachusetts Ave, N.W., Suite 200, Washington, D.C. 20036; Phone: 202/478-8500; Fax: 202/478-8580;Web site: http://www.teenpregnancy.org
Talking To Kids
About Tough Issues
Lynne S. Dumas
This booklet offers tips and techniques for talking with children about important issues.
Chapters include “First Things First,” “Talking With Kids About AIDS,” “Talking With Kids About Sex and Sexuality,” “Talking With Kids About Violence,” and “Talking With Kids About Drugs and Alcohol.” A Spanish version is available.
1996; Free; Children Now, 800/CHILD-44; Available at http://www.talkingwithkids.org
Teaching Human Sexuality:
A Guide for Parents and
Other Caregivers
Judy Cyprian
This manual, intended for foster parents but can be used by parents and other caregivers. Offering guidelines and suggestions it presents basics sexuality information by developmental age. A glossary, referrals, resources are included.
1998; $18.95; ISBN 0878686614; Child Welfare League of America, P.O. Box 2019, Annapolis Junction, MD 20701; Phone: 800/407-6273; Fax : 301/206-9789; Web site: http://www.cwla.org
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Ten Talks Parents
Must Have With Their Children
About Sex and Character |
Ten Tips For Parents:
To Help Their Children
Avoid Teen Pregnancy
This pamphlet provides tips for parents and other adults who want to help children avoid teen pregnancy. A resource list is included. A Spanish version is available.
1998; Free; The National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, 1776 Massachusetts Ave, N.W., Suite 200, Washington, D.C. 20036; Phone: 202/478-8500; Fax: 202/478-8580;Web site: http://www.teenpregnancy.org
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Understanding Your Child’s Sexual Behavior
What’s Natural and Healthy |
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Venus in Blue Jeans:
Why Mothers & Daughters
Need to Talk About Sex:
Sage Advice & Practical Strategies
For Guiding Girls Toward Womanhood |
When Sex Is the Subject: Attitudes and Answers for Young Children
Pamela M. Wilson, MSW
Written for teachers and parents, this book addresses questions of children 10 years old and younger. The psychosocial development and learning process of children is discussed. Guidelines are provided for accurate and comfortable responses.
1991; $17.95; 101pp.; ISBN 1560710640; ETR Associates, P.O. Box 1830, Santa Cruz, CA 95061-1830; Phone: 800/321-4407; Fax: 800/435-8433; Web site: http://www.etr.org
RESOURCES FOR CHILDREN
Bellybuttons Are Navels*
Mark Schoen
This book is intended to help parents create a relaxed environment for the discussion of sexuality. It will help parents initiate and guide matter-of-fact, accurate discussions about sexual anatomy with their young children.
1990; $19; ISBN 0879755857; Prometheus Books, 59 John Glenn Drive, Amherst, NY 14228-2197; Phone: 800/421-0351; Fax: 716/691-0137; Web site: http://www.prometheusbooks.com
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Daddy's Roommate* |
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Did the Sun Shine Before You Were Born?: A Sexuality Education Primer* |
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Heather Has Two Mommies* |
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How You Were Born?* |
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How Was I Born? |
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It’s so Amazing:
A Book About Eggs,
Sperm, Birth, Babies
And Families |
A Kid's First Book About Sex*
Joani Blank
Intended for children ages five to nine, this book discusses body parts, sexual feelings, sexual behaviors, sexual orientation, and sexual and personal relationships with other people.
1983; $6.00; ISBN 940208075; Down There Press, 938 Howard Street #101, San Francisco, CA 94103; Phone: 800/289-8423; Fax: 415/974-8989; Web site: http://www.goodvibes.com
My Body Belongs to Me*
Kristin Baird
This book is designed to help young children develop self-esteem and positive body image. It is intended to help them develop respect and understanding for their bodies if they are threatened with sexual abuse or exploitation. It presents these safety rules: Say no in a loud voice, move away to a safe place, and tell a grown-up who can help.
1990; $18.95; ISBN 0886711738; American Guidance Service, Inc., P.O. Box 99, Circle Pines, MN 55014. Phone: 800/328-2560; Fax: 612/786-9077; Web site: http://www.agsnet.com
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My Dad Has HIV* |
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So That’s How I Was Born! |
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What's the Big Secret?
Talking About Sex with Girls and Boys* |
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Where Do Babies Come From?* |
RESOURCES FOR ADOLESCENTS
Captain Bio: HIV Attacks*
This comic book is aimed at helping young people learn the facts about HIV transmission and prevention. The facts are presented as part of a scientific adventure.
1996, $1.50; Tim Peters and Company, 87 Main Street, P.O. Box 370, Peapack, NJ 07977; Phone: 800/543-2230; Fax: 908/234-1961; Web site: http://www.biocomics.com
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The Care & Keeping of You
The Body Book For Girls |
Caution: Do Not Open Until Puberty!: An Introduction to Sexuality for Young Adults with Disabilities*
Rick Enright, B.A., M.S.W.
This book is intended as an icebreaker for an open discussion of sexuality between disabled adolescents and their families. Using illustrations and clear, informative text, this book addresses decision making, anatomy, sexual response, physical disability and sexual functioning, as well as suggestions for further learning.
1995; $9.95; ISBN 0-9680415-0-7; Devinjer House, P.O. Box 130, Sparta, Ontario, Canada, N0L 2H0; Phone: 519/685-8703; Fax: 519/685-8699; Web site: http://www.tvcc.on.ca
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Changes in You and Me: A Book About Puberty Mostly for Boys* |
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Changes in You and Me: A Book About Puberty Mostly for Girls* |
Dating With Confidence:
A Teen’s Survival Guide
Jacqueline Jarosz
This book addresses many of the practical issues associated with a first date. Chapters include "Are You Ready?" "I've Got A Crush On You," "How Are You Gonna Get There," "The 411 on the Pre-Date," "First Date Do's and Don'ts," "Dating On A Budget," "Who Is This Person?" and "The Dark Side Of Dating."
2000; $9.95; ISBN:1580622933; Adams Media Corporation, 260 Center Street, Holbrook, MA 02343;
Phone: 800/872-5627; Fax: 781/767-0994; Web site: http://www.adamsmedia.com
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Deal with It!
A Whole New Approach
to Your Body, Brain,
and Life as a gURL |
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Dear Larissa: Sexuality Education for Girls Ages 11-17* |
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Dear Michael: Sexuality Education for Boys Ages 11-17* |
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Dr. Ruth Talks
To Kids: Where You
Came From, How You
Body Changes, and
What Sex is All About |
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Finding Our Way:
The Teen Girls’ Survival Guide |
Finding Your Way: A Book About Sexual Ethics*
Susan Neiburg Terkel
Intended for adolescents, this book explains the importance of making educated decisions about sexual behavior, and of appreciating others' sexual standards.
1995; $25; ISBN 0531112349; Franklin Watts, Sherman Turnpike, Danbury, CT 06816; Phone: 800/621-1115; Fax: 800/374-4329; Web site: http://www.grolier.com
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Girltalk: All the Stuff Your Sister Never Told You* |
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"The Go Ask Alice Book of Answers" A Guide to Good Physical, Sexual, and Emotional Health |
How Sex Works*
Elizabeth Fenwick and Richard Walker
This illustrated book covers changes during puberty, dating and relationships, sexual activity, contraception, STDs, and sexual violence and consent. It also provides references for teenagers who need further information.
1994; $14.95; ISBN 0789406349; Publisher Resources, Inc., 1224 Heil Quaker Boulevard, LaVergne, TN 37086; Phone: 888/342-5357; Fax: 800/774-6733; Web site: http://www.dk.com
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"I'm Pregnant, Now What Do I Do?"* |
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In Your Face: Stories from the Lives of Queer Youth |
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It’s A Girl Thing:
How To Stay Healthy,
Safe, And In Charge |
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It's Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Sex and Sexual Health* |
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Like It Is:
A Teen Sex Guide |
Out with It: Gay and Straight Teens Write About Homosexuality*
Youth Communication
This anthology of articles by gay and straight teens on homosexuality covers such subjects as homophobia, coming out, and friends and family. Also included is an extensive chapter on teacher resources.
1996; $8; Youth Communication, 224 West 29th Street, 2nd Floor, New York, NY 10001; Phone: 212/279-0708; Fax: 212/242-7057; Web site: http://www.youthcomm.org
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Period.
A Girl’s Guide** |
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Real Girl Real World:
Tools For Finding Your True Self |
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The Seventeen Guide to Sex and Your Body |
Sex & Sense*
Gary F. Kelly
The author of this book dispels many myths about sexuality and emphasizes the explorations and examinations that are part of adolescent sexual and emotional development. The text stresses communication, being well informed, and clarifying one's values before making sexual decisions. It also helps adolescents examine what it means to be a sexual person.
1993; ISBN 081202432x; Out of print
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Sex Ed:
Growing Up,
Relationships, and Sex |
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Smart Sex: |
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The Teen Body Book:
A Guide To Your Changing Body |
Teen Love Series:
A Journal On Relationships
Kimberly Kirberger with Colin Mortensen
This journal provides questions for teens to answer as they express themselves and discover how to deal with love and relationships during adolescence. Chapters include "Love Yourself First," "Falling in Love," "All These New Feelings," "Do You Like Me," "When Friends Become More," "Now That We're Together," "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do," and "Starting Over."
1999; $12.95; Health Communications, 3201 Southwest 15th Street, Deefield Beach, FL 33442; Phone: 800/441-5569; Fax: 800/424-7652; Web site: http://www.hci-online.com
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The Teen Trip: The Complete Resource Guide* |
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The Teenage Guy’s Survival Guide:
The Real Deal on Girls, Growing Up,
And other Guy Stuff |
The Watts Teen Health Dictionary*
Charlotte Isler, R.N. and Alwyn T. Cohall, M.D.
Presented in dictionary format, this health resource answers young people's questions about their bodies and their health. It includes illustrations and charts, hotlines and information sources, and a list of books for teens.
1996; $16.00; ISBN 053115792X; Franklin Watts, Sherman Turnpike, Danbury, CT 06816; Phone: 800/621-1115; Fax: 800/374-4329; Web site: http://www.grolier.com
A Young Woman’s Survival Guide: Kickin’ Back with the Girls, Second Edition
Health Initiatives for Youth
This multicultural “hip guide” uses poetry, photographs, illustrations, and stories to explore female sexuality. Chapters include: “My Life, My Body, My Choices: Relationships and Sexuality,” “’Don’t Trip, I Don’t Got Nothing’: STDs, HIV and Hepatitis,” and “No Shame in My Game: Birth Control, Safer Sex, and Abortion.”
1998; $10; Health Initiatives for Youth Publications, 1242 Market Street, Third Floor, San Francisco, CA 94102; Phone: 415/487-5777; Fax: 415/487-5771; Web site: http://www.hify.com
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Your Body: The Girl's Guide |
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Your Body, Yourself: A Guide to Your Changing Body |
SERIES
Coping
This series consists of many books that address sexuality, health, safety, and other issues. Topics include unplanned pregnancy, date and acquaintance rape, peer pressure, teen parenting, sexual harassment and gender bias, PMS, HIV/AIDS, birth control, teenage motherhood, decision making, menstruation, sexual orientation, and sexual abuse.
$17.95/each, also sold as sets; The Rosen Publishing Group, Inc., Dept. 29 East 21st Street, New York, NY 10010; Phone: 800/237-9932; Fax: 800/436-4643.
Girl’s Guide
Victoria F. Shaw
This series consists of 12 books for preteens. Chapters in Body Talk: A Girl’s Guide to What’s Happening to Your Body include “Welcome to Puberty,” “Your Breasts: An Owner’s Manual,” “Menstruation: The Basics,” and “Everything You Wanted to Know About Body Hair, B.O., & Zits.” Other books in the series include “Best Buds: A Girl’s Guide to Friendship,” “The Buzz on Beauty: A Girl’s Guide to Looking and Feeling Your Best,” “Cha-Ching! A Girls Guide to Spending and Saving,” “Crushes, Creeps, & Classmates: A Girl’s Guide to Getting Along with Boys,” “From Algebra to Zits: A Girl’s Guide to Making the Most of Life at School,” “Fuel Up! A Girl’s Guide to Eating Well,” “Get Involved! A Girl’s Guide to Volunteering,” “Havin’ Fun & Hangin’ Out: A Girl’s Guide to Cool Stuff to Do,” “InfoGirl: A Girl’s Guide to the Internet, “Refuse to Use: A Girl’s Guide to Drugs and Alcohol,” and “Write It Down! A Girl’s Guide to Keeping a Journal.”
1999; $107.70/series, $17.95/each; The Rosen Publishing Group, 29 East 21st Street, New York, NY 10010; Phone: 212/777-3017; Fax: 212/777-0277.
Guy’s Guides
This series for consists of six books for preteens. Titles include “You Ought To Know: A Guy’s Guide to Sex,” “Dating and Relating: A Guy’s Guide to Girls,” “The Real Deal: A Guy’s Guide To Being A Guy,” “Stay Cool: A Guy’s Guide to Handling Conflict,” “Chillin’: A Guy’s Guide To Friendship,” “and “Top Of Your Game: A Guy’s Guide To Looking And Feeling Good.”
2000; $17.95/each, $107.70/series; The Rosen Publishing Group, Inc., Dept. 29 East 21st Street, New York, NY 10010; Phone: 800/237-9932; Fax: 800/436-4643.
The Need To Know Library
This series consists of many books that address sexuality, health, safety, and other issues. Topics include HIV/AIDS, STDs, rape, breast health, sexual harassment, sexual identity, virginity, dating and relationships, teen pregnancy, and sexual assault.
$17.95/each, also sold as sets; The Rosen Publishing Group, Inc., Dept. 29 East 21st Street, New York, NY 10010; Phone: 800/237-9932; Fax: 800/436-4643.
Perspectives on Healthy Sexuality
This series of 12 books for adolescents can be used in the home as well as the classroom. Titles are “Abstinence: Postponing Sexual Involvement,” “Birth Control and Protection: Options for Teens,” Dating and Sex: Defining and Setting Boundaries,” “Health Sexuality: What Is It?” “Homosexuality; What Does It Mean?” “Influences on Sexuality: Understanding Their Effects,” “Sexually Transmitted Diseases: How Are then Prevented?” “Sexual Readiness: When Is It Right?” “Teen Fathers: Getting Involved,” “Teen Mothers: Raising a Baby,” “Teen Pregnancy: Tough Choices,” and “Teen Sex: Risks and Consequences.” Chapter overviews, fast facts, points to consider, quizzes and a glossary are included.
2000; $203.40/series of 12, $16.95 each; ISBN for series 0736807209; Capstone Press, 151 Good Counsel Drive, P.O. Box 669, Mankato, MN 56002-0669; Phone: 800/747-4992; Fax: 888/262-0705; Web site: http://www.capstone-press.com
Perspectives on Relationships
This series of 8 books for adolescents can be used in the home as well as the classroom. Titles are “Dating: What Is a Healthy Relationship?” “Incest: Why Am I Afraid To Tell,” “Peer Pressure: How Can I Say No?,” “Sexual Harassment: This Doesn’t Feel Right,” “Assertiveness: How Can I Say What I Mean?,” “Child Abuse: Why Do My Parents Hate Me?,” “Family Violence: My Parents Hurt Each Other,” and “Parents: They’re Driving Me Crazy!.”
2000; $135.60/set of 8, $16.95 each; ISBN for series 0736802959; Capstone Press, 151 Good Counsel Drive, P.O. Box 669, Mankato, MN 56002-0669; Phone: 800/747-4992; Fax: 888/262-0705; Web site: http://www.capstone-press.com
CURRICULA FOR PARENTS
Can We Talk?
Helping Families Talk About
Self-Esteem, Sex and Peer Pressure
This program helps parents of children in grades 4 through 8 enhance their role as sexuality educators of their children. It is a four-part workshop series that helps families talk about self-esteem, puberty, sexuality, mixed messages, and peer pressure. Each class contains content for a one-hour interactive discussion, home activities between parent and child, and videos that focus on communication. The planning and training manual, family activity book and video are included. The Spanish version ¿Conversamos? is also available.
1998; $75; NEA Professional Library, P.O. Box 2035, Annapolis Junction, MD 20701; Phone: 800/229-4200; Fax: 301/206-9789; Web site: http://www.canwetalk.org
Our Whole Lives (OWL)
A Lifespan Sexuality Education Series
Unitarian Universalist
Association and
United Church Board
For Homeland Ministries
This is a comprehensive lifespan sexuality education series developed jointly by the Unitarian Universalist Association and the United Church Board for Homeland Ministries. To involve parents in the sexuality education of their children, the series includes The Parent Guide to Our Whole Lives: Grades K-1 and 4-6. Both The Parent Guide and Our Whole Lives for Grades K-1 must be purchased together for such use. Components of the series include: OWL: Sexuality Education for K-1, 1999, $40; OWL: Sexuality Education for Grades 4-6, 2000, $40; The Parent Guide to OWL: Grades K-1 and 4-6, 2000, $15; OWL: Sexuality Education for Grades 7-9, 1999, $75; OWL: Sexuality Education for Grades 10-12, 2000, $60; OWL: Sexuality Education for Adults, 2000, $60; The Advocacy Manual for Sexuality Education, Health and Justice: Resources for Communities of Faith, 1999, $12. Each curriculum in the series covers the six concepts outlined in SIECUS’ Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality Education Kindergarten—12th Grade: human development, relationships, personal skills, sexual behavior, sexual health, and society and culture.
Unitarian Universalist Association, UUA Bookstore, 25 Beacon Street, Boston, MA 02108; Phone: 800/215-9076; Fax: 617/723-4805; Web site: http://www.uua.org
Plain Talk For Parents
Training Package
Dominic Cappello
This four-part series utilizes innovative approaches to assist parents in developing communication skills to talk openly and honestly to their children about sexuality issues. It focuses on character education and helps parents talk nonjudgmentally with their children about assuming adult responsibility. Topics include: "Setting Personal Boundaries," "TV and Sex," "Decision-Making," and "Healthy Neighborhoods." This package also includes "Plain Talk about Community Organizing," "Plain Talk Promo Kit," "Plain Talk Trainer’s Guide," and a "Patty Plain Talk Video."
1997; $165; Plain Talk, Neighborhood House, 10041 6th Avenue, S.W., Seattle, WA 98146; Phone: 206/940-1984; Fax: 206/767-7671; Web site: http://www.speakeasy.org/plaintalk
There’s No Place Like Home…
For Sex Education
No Hay Lugar Como El Hogar…
Para La Educación Sexual
Mary Gossart, MS
Spanish Translation Bojana Stefanovska
These reproducible parent newsletters in both English and Spanish that can be distributed in a variety of settings. It consists of five newsletters for each grade level pre-school through twelve that are intended to assist families in communicating more openly about sexuality. Each issue contains sexuality information relevant to a particular developmental stage, useful communication strategies, and resources to support parents in their role as primary educators of their children.
1999; $55; Planned Parenthood Health Services of Southwestern Oregon, 1670 High Street, Eugene, OR 97401; Phone: 541/344-1611 x 13; Fax: 541/342-6088
AUDIOVISUALS
Raising Healthy Kids: Families Talk About Sexual Health*
This set of two 30-minute videos with discussion guides is designed to help families of young children, preadolescents, or adolescents communicate about sexual health. The first video is for parents of young children. It includes interviews with children, parents, and experts and features discussion about setting limits, telling the truth, labeling body parts, how babies are made, self-touching, appropriate and inappropriate touch and more. The second video is for parents of preadolescents and adolescents. It includes interviews with young people, parents, and experts and features discussion about values, listening, avoiding absolutes, mixed messages, relationships, and more.
Videos are available as a set or individually and are closed captioned.
1997; $149.95 for set of two or $99.95 each plus S/H for institutions, $19.95 plus $6.00 S/H per video for individuals; Family Health Productions., P.O. Box 1799, Gloucester, MA 01931-1799; Phone: 978/282-9970; Fax: 978/282-9550; Web site: http://www.abouthealth.com
Talking About Sex: A Guide for Families*
Planned Parenthood Federation of America
This multimedia package includes an engaging animated video, a fact-filled book for parents, and a fun activity book for young people 10 to 14 years old. It will help open the lines of communication about sexuality, puberty, and relationships between parents and their children.
1996; $19.95; Marketing Group, Planned Parenthood Federation of America, 810 Seventh Avenue, NY, NY 10019; Phone: 800/669-0156; Fax: 212/261-4352; Web site: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/store
What Kids Want to Know
About Sex and Growing Up
This video answers questions kids in grades 5-9 have about sexuality. It includes information about puberty, sexual intercourse, AIDS, conception, masturbation, and peer pressure.
1992; $59.95; ETR Associates, P.O. Box 1830, Santa Cruz, CA 95061-1830; Phone: 800/321-4407; Fax: 800/435-8433; Web site: http://www.etr.org
WEB SITES
Birds and Bees is the Minnesota based Pro-Choice Resources Web site. It provides information on birth control, pregnancy, STDs, and links to other sites.
http://www.birdsandbees.org
Campaign For Our Children has information on their web site for both parents and teens. The parent section includes “How to talk with your kids about sex,” “How to talk to your school board about sex,” as well as frequently asked questions. The teen section includes “What’s the 411 about sex?” and “How to talk to your parents about sex.”
http://www.cfoc.org
Coalition for Positive Sexuality includes sexuality information in both English and Spanish for teens who are sexually active or who are thinking about becoming sexually active. It provides a forum for teens to chat*, to find information on sexuality issues, or to ask questions of sexuality experts.
http://www.positive.org
Go Ask Alice!, developed and maintained by Columbia University’s Health Education Program, uses a question-and-answer format to provide information on relationships; sexuality; sexual health; emotional health and fitness; nutrition; alcohol; nicotine and other drugs; and general health. Visitors can search the database or ask anonymous questions.
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu
gURL is committed to discussing issues that affect the lives of girls 13 years and older. The site helps girls with a wide range of experiences and interests. It warns visitors they might find frank information. It also offers chats***, posting boards, pen-pal lists, and homepage listings.
http://www.gurl.com
It’s Your (Sex) Life, a project of The Henry J. Kaiser Family Foundation, provides information about pregnancy, contraception, sexually transmitted diseases, and related issues.
http://www.itsyoursexlife.com
Iwannaknow, sponsored by the American Social Health Association, provides a safe and fun place for teenagers to learn about sexual health. The site includes a chat room*** and games related to sexual health services. It also provides guidance for parents.
http://www.iwannaknow.org
The National Parent Information Center Web site provides access to research-based information about the process of parenting, and about family involvement in education.
http://www.npin.org
Outproud’s site for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender youth includes message boards***, online brochures, links, and searchable list of materials.
http://www.outproud.org
Planned Parenthood’s Web site offers Resources for Parents and Other Adults which includes information about How to Be a Good Parent, How to Talk with Your Child About Sexuality, How to Talk with Your Teen About the Facts of Life, and Human Sexuality: What Children Should Know.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/library/SEXUALITYEDUCATION/DEFAULT.HTM
Scarleteen offers Pinkslip for girls, Boyfriend! for guys, and Gaydar for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and questioning youth 14 to 18 years old. It provides advice, articles, information, and message boards*** addressing sexuality and sexual health issues. There is also a section for parents.
http://www.scarleteen.com
Sex Ed Mom is “a parent’s guide to the birds and the bees.” It provides advice, live monthly chats, teaching tips, and video clips.
http://thriveonline.oxygen.com/sex/experts/sex_ed_mom/index.html
Sex Etc., sponsored by The Network For Family Life Education, includes articles on a variety of sexuality topics as well as an online newsletter, advice, message boards***, resources, links, and information for parents.
http://www.sxetc.org
Sex Sense, sponsored by Planned Parenthood of Southeastern Pennsylvania, provides sexuality advice and quizzes for and by teens.
http://www.ppsp.org/tpe.html
Sextalk, sponsored by Planned Parenthood of Tompkins County (PPTC), NY, includes information on safer sex, self exams, and sexual orientation. It also provides links.
http://www.sextalk.org
SIECUS offers a section for parents and caregivers as well as teens. For Parents and Other Adults provides a Radio Series: Listen to the SIECUS Radio Series Containing Frequently Asked Questions and Answers, publications, and special reports including Kids Online: What Parents Can Do to Protect Their Children From Cyberspace and Public Support for Sexuality Education. For Teens, is a starting place for teens to learn about sexuality issues. It includes information about communication, abstinence, sexual involvement, safer sex, sexual abuse, resources, and links.
http://www.siecus.org
Talking With Kids About Tough Issues is a national initiative by Children Now and the Kaiser Family Foundation to encourage parents to talk with their children earlier and more often about tough issues like sexuality, HIV/AIDS, violence, alcohol, and drug abuse.
http://www.talkingwithkids.org
Teen Advice Online (TAO) provides information on teenage problems through a worldwide network of peers 13 years and older. It also includes articles, a chat room***, and sexuality-related topics such as dating, relationships, gender, and friendships. Interested teens can apply to become a TAO counselor.
http://www.teenadvice.org
Teen Scene, part of the Advocates for Youth Web site, includes a chat area***, articles, a link to “Do Something” (a national nonprofit that inspires young people to believe that change is possible), and a link to the Peer Education Web ring.
http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/corner.htm
Teenwire, sponsored by Planned Parenthood Federation of America, provides sexuality and sexual health information. It also encourages teens to contribute their opinions and ideas in certain areas. It includes advice, articles, polls, clinic information, and a ‘zine for teens by teens.
http://www.teenwire.com
Youth Resource, a project of Advocates For Youth is a site for provides resources and peer support to gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered youth. It includes listservs, youth groups, and chat information***.
http://www.youthresource.org
RESOURCES AVAILABLE FROM SIECUS
These resources for parents and their children are available from SIECUS. Interested individuals should visit the SIECUS web site (http://www.siecus.org) or call SIECUS at 212/819/8770.
How to Talk to Your Children About AIDS
This booklet, designed to help parents talk with their children about HIV/AIDS, offers basic information and guidelines appropriate for specific age levels: preschool, young children, preteens, and teenagers. More than a million copies have been distributed to individuals and organizations across the United States. "I heartily recommend ... How to Talk to Your Children About AIDS. It is written in plain, easy-to-understand language." - Dear Abby.
1997; SIECUS, Publications Department, 130 W. 42nd Street, Suite 350, New York, NY 10036-7802; phone 212/819-9770; Fax: 212/819-9776; Web site: http://www.siecus.org
Now What Do I Do?
Designed to help parents of preteens with tough questions, this booklet includes 15 situations dealing with sexuality issues. Topics include HIV/AIDS, puberty, love, dating, contraception, and masturbation. A three-step process asks the parent to consider why the situation arose, how to respond, and what messages they want their children to receive. The "Remember" section for each topic includes helpful hints about preteens and sexuality, as well as some basic facts the preteens need.
1996; SIECUS, Publications Department, 130 W. 42nd Street, Suite 350, New York, NY 10036-7802; Phone 212/819-9770; Fax: 212/819-9776; Web site: http://www.siecus.org
Talk About Sex
This booklet was developed to help teenagers communicate more openly and effectively about issues related to sexuality and HIV/AIDS. It offers clear, honest, and straightforward information in a very engaging, youth-friendly manner. Hablemos de Sexo, is the Spanish translation.
1992; SIECUS, Publications Department, 130 W. 42nd Street, Suite 350, New York, NY 10036-7802; Phone 212/819-9770; Fax: 212/819-9776; Web site: http://www.siecus.org
ORGANIZATIONS
The following organizations offer sexuality resources for parents, caregivers, children and youth.
Advocates for Youth
This organization works to prevent pregnancy, STDs, and HIV infection among adolescents.
1025 Vermont Avenue, N.W., Suite 200; Washington, DC 20005; Phone: 202/347-5700
Fax: 202/347-2263; Web site: http://www.advocatesforyouth.org
Campaign For Our Children
This organization develops research-based prevention messages and educational media campaigns that encourage healthy, responsible sexual decisions among early-adolescent youth, promote a more informed support system for youth, and raise public awareness about adolescent preventive health issues.
120 West Fayette Street, Suite 1200, Baltimore, MD 21201; Phone: 410/576-9015; Fax: 410/752-2191; Web site: http://www.cfoc.org
Child Welfare League of America
This organization is committed to engaging all Americans in promoting the well being of children, young people, and their families as well as in protecting every child from harm.
440 First Street, N.W., Third Floor, Washington, DC 20001-2085; Phone: 202/638-2952; Fax: 202/638-4004; Web site: http://www.cwla.org
Children Now
This organization is a nonpartisan, independent voice for children, working to translate the nation's commitment to children and families into action.
1212 Broadway, 5th Floor, Oakland, CA 94612; Phone: 510-763-2444; Fax: 510-763-1974; Web site: http://www.childrennow.org
Children’s Defense Fund
This organization ensures that every child has a healthy start, a head start, a fair start, a safe start, and a moral start in life as well as a successful passage into adulthood with the help of caring families and communities.
25 E Street, N.W., Washington, DC 20001; Phone: 202/628-8787; Fax: 202/662-3510; Web site: http://www.childrensdefensefund.org
ETR Associates
This organization enhances the well being of individuals, families, and communities by providing leadership, educational resources, training, and research in health promotion with an emphasis on sexuality and health education.
P.O. Box 1830, Santa Cruz, CA 95061-1830; Phone: 800/321-4407; Fax: 800/435-8433; Web site: http://www.etr.org
Girls Incorporated
This national youth organization is dedicated to helping every girl become strong, smart, and bold through advocacy, research, and education.
120 Wall Street, Third Floor New York, NY 10005; Phone: 212/509-2000; Fax: 212/509-8708;
National Resource Center, 441 West Michigan Street, Indianapolis, IN 46202-3233; Phone: 317/634-7546; Fax: 317/634-3024; Web site: http://www.girlsinc.org
Hetrick-Martin Institute
This organization serves gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and questioning youth through education, counseling, homeless outreach, training, and resources.
2 Astor Place, New York, NY 10003-6998; Phone: 212/674-2600; Fax: 212/674-8650; Web site: http://www.hmi.org
Mother's Voices
This organization is committed to bringing an end to HIV/AIDS in the United States and around the world. They assist, encourage, and educate mothers to join the struggle for improved HIV/AIDS prevention efforts, fair and effective policies, better treatment, human rights protections, research, and a cure.
165 W. 46th Street, Suite 701, New York, NY 10036; Phone: 888/MVOICES or 212/730-2777; Fax: 212/730-4378; Web site: http://www.mvoices.org
National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy
This organization is dedicated to preventing teen pregnancy by supporting values and encouraging acts that are consistent with a pregnancy-free adolescence.
1776 Massachusetts Ave, N.W., Suite 200, Washington, D.C. 20036; Phone: 202/478-8500; Fax: 202/478-8580;Web site: http://www.teenpregnancy.org
National Education Association-Health Information Network
This affiliate of the NEA works to improve health, safety, and student achievement by providing school employees with vital, effective and timely health information through parents, communities, and public/ private partnerships.
1201 Sixteenth Street, Suite 521, Washington, DC 20036; Phone: 202/822-7570; Fax: 202/822-7775; Web site: http://www.neahin.org
National Information Center for Children and Youth with Disabilities
This national information and referral center provides information on disabilities and disability-related issues for families, educators, and other professionals.
P.O. Box 1492, Washington, DC 20013-1492: Phone/TTY: 800/695-0285 or 202/884-8200; Fax: 202/884-8441; Web site: http://www.nichcy.org
National Network For Youth
This organization is dedicated to ensuring that young people can lead safe, healthy, and productive lives.
1319 F Street, NW, Suite 401, Washington, DC 20004; Phone: 202/783-7949; Fax: 202/783-7955; Web site: http://www.nn4youth.org
National Organization on Adolescent Pregnancy, Parenting, and Prevention
This organization provides leadership, education, training, information, and advocacy resources to practitioners in the field of adolescent pregnancy, parenting, and prevention.
2401 Pennsylvania Avenue, NW, Suite 350, Washington, DC 20037; Phone: 202/293-8370; Fax: 202/293-8805; Web site: http://www.healthyteennetwork.org
National Parent-Teachers Association
The National PTA is the oldest and largest volunteer association in the United States working exclusively on behalf of children and youth.
330 N. Wabash Avenue, Suite 2100, Chicago, IL 60611-3690; Phone: 312/670-6782 or 800/307-4782; Fax: 312/670-6783; Web site: http://www.pta.org
National Youth Advocacy Coalition
This coalition advocates for and with young people who are gay, lesbian, or transgendered in an effort to end discrimination against them and to ensure their physical and emotional well being.
1638 R Street, N.W., Suite 300, Washington, DC 20009; Phone: 202/319-7596; Fax: 202/319-7365; Web site: http://www.nyacyouth.org
Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays
This organization promotes the health and well being of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered persons as well as their families and friends through support and education.
1726 M Street, N.W., Suite 400; Washington, DC 20036; Phone: 202/467-8180; Fax: 202/467-8194; Web site: http://www.pflag.org
Planned Parenthood Federation of America
This organization believes in the fundamental right of individuals to manage their own fertility regardless of income, marital status, race, age, sexual orientation, and national origin.
810 Seventh Avenue, New York, NY 10019; Phone: 212/541-7800 or 800/230-PLAN refers to your local Planned Parenthood; Fax: 212/245-1845; Web site: http://www.plannedparenthood.org
Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network
This organization operates a 24-hour confidential national hotline for survivors of sexual assault.
635-B Pennsylvania Avenue, S.E., Washington, DC 20003; Phone: 800/656-HOPE; Fax: 202/544-3556; Web site: http://www.rainn.org
The Safer Society Foundation
This foundation provides a variety of services related to the prevention and treatment of sexual abuse.
P.O. Box 340 Brandon, Vermont 05733-0340; Phone: 802/247-3132; Fax: 802/247-4233; Web site: http://www.safersociety.org
The Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States
SIECUS affirms that sexuality is a fundamental part of being human, one that is worthy of dignity and respect. We advocate for the right of all people to accurate information, comprehensive education about sexuality, and sexual health services. SIECUS works to create a world that ensures social justice and sexual rights.
130 West 42nd Street, Suite 350, New York, NY 10036-7802; Phone: 212/819-9770; Fax: 212/819-9776; 1706 "R" Street, Washington, DC 20009; Phone: 202/265-2405; Fax: 202/462-2340; Web site: http://www.siecus.org
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